Amen brothers.
My dad's dad was killed before I was born and I was very young when my grandfather on my mom' side passed away, so the impact wasn't there.
But I was very close with my grandmother (we moved her in next door) and lived there with her for years.
It's tough losing a family member
I'm sorry for both your losses, but as Andy and Mark said, they're in a much better place now, looking down at you and saying, hey! Stop all that!...I'm fine now....
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Gordon
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