40#'s at cruise is acceptable, but on the low side of it.
Not uncommon the first change to have a small amount, but you really need your oil filter cut open & examined. That will tell the whole story of what is going on in the motor.
AL comes from either left over particles from the machining (should not ever be any if properly cleaned before assy). Iron fillings (the fine dark grey "mud" looking stuff on the magnetic oil plug is normal. especially while rings are seating. Any magnetic paticles or pieces that are shiney are a concern....they are coming from a part failing like a rocker or lifter or timing set. Brass or "gold" colored shiney particles are bearings. NOT good.
Bring in your old filter & we have a cutter & do it free if in doubt.