Well I just got back from the range with the little lady looking for a CCW. She shot almost every handgun known to man.
She shot the SW 38 special revolver, to much recoil; the XB, Kaltec, Walther and the list goes on. After each series she would grab her G17 and fire a magazine or so to compare the gun to what she's become used to.
She ended up with the Kahr CW9. Looks like a great little CCW, slim, light, manageable recoil and 9mm (same ammo as her G17). Best of all, she's happy with it and that means to me she'll use it.