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Originally Posted by Shadow
I agree, but how long do you leave it open? When does it outlive it's usefulness?
JMHO....no biggie.....
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Personally, I think it is rare that any thread outlive it's usefulness. Just as people are the result of their experiences growing up, so is a website like this. Yeah, there will be growing pains and some incidents taking place that you would rather forget and sweep under the rug, but my belief is that even crap can be used for fertilizer to make some good use out of it.
Basically my philosophy about locked threads is that management is dictating that they don't want anyone talking about that subject matter at all. For whatever reason. I just don't like that sort of attitude. If a thread is getting way down and dirty, then the members who are driving it that way need to be dealt with to turn it around, not the discussion itself get kicked in the butt.
The benefit of the doubt will be that the unruly participants are just getting carried away and need to be notified that their actions HAVE to be toned down substantially to lower the temperature content of the thread. If the cooling down is not done voluntarily, then such a cooling down can be forced for three days to strike that point home. Only the most hardheaded, and in some cases intentionally troublesome, persons would continue where they left off when the cooling off period has ended. Which means stronger measures will be needed to deal with them. In worst case, a permanent solution, unfortunately, will need to be selected when no other option presents itself.
Sub-mature kids are rare on this site, and it is my hope that immaturity will be just as rare, no matter what age bracket everyone is in. I want banning to be VERY VERY rare here, and it is sincerely my hope that I never give anyone any reason to put themselves into that predicament as a result of THEIR reactions to my own actions and decisions.
Nearly anything can be discussed here, including the way this site is run. But I do require it to be moderately civil and without derogatory content added for spice. I do not require respect from anyone, but on the flip side of that same coin will not appreciate blatant disrespect.
I will always listen to suggestions, complaints, and gripes, no matter what they are about. But a caveat to this is that I just may not agree with your perspective and it has to be understood that for every suggestion someone is likely to make, I probably have gotten several others suggesting the exact opposite. So I have to make my best call on what I believe is best, and my not taking your suggestion in no way reflects anything other than I am trying to do what I believe is best for this site.
Now, are there any other sideline trips we can take in this one thread....