It is sad but you chose correctly grasshopper
When my daughter was about 14 or so, she had a friend that lived not too far from us. One evening she was visiting my daughter and at about 9pm had to leave.
I offered to take her home (had met the parents, had dinner with them, etc) and thought nothing of it.
My wife intervened and said, "let me do it." I thought nothing of it at the time.
When she returned, she mentioned that it was "safer" if she did it than to have the young girl in the car with me that late at night
I'm like WTF
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!!! and a more than a little pissed that she'd even THINK such a thing
Being in law enforcement for so many years, harming a child was the furthest thing from my mind. She'd probably be as safe as she'd ever bee with me
Of course, when I settled down a bit, I realized what the wife said was correct and that the implications of even an allegation could ruin me and the family. She was right
And so are you my friend...it really is a sad world we live in