Yeah, it can be a problem, because it sure does like to spread. Fortunately we have enough acreage where hopefully it won't get to be a problem. However, I did plant some yellow vivax fairly close to the house a number of years ago, and so far don't regret the idea.
I have had success with cutting rhizomes and then staying on top of it trying to put new culms up. Unless it can produce leaves for photosynthesis, it WILL die.
Cutting culms and spraying the stumps with a defoliant does seem to knock it back in areas you don't want it, too.
But yeah, bamboo is pretty darn hardy. But on the plus side, it is often used in the orient to purposely grow under houses, as a safeguard against the ground opening up under dwellings from earthquakes, sink holes, etc. The rhizomes can be almost as effective as steel cables for support. So if you live in an area prone to sink holes, this could maybe be a consideration.