I really don't know what to do because I'm deployed and I feel helpless and I just don't want anything to do with this crap anymore if it's going to be nothing but court battles for my family.
You are not alone and not helpless here. If any sort of courtroom appearances are asked of you, it is my opinion that it will be as a witness for the prosecution in one or more court cases involving parties against Chris Harwood. Quite frankly, if Chris were to engage in something like this, then it will likely just accelerate other legal actions that others are considering semi-seriously, into the "seriously" category.
If Chris does not have the money to pay back the people he owes money and services to, then he certainly is not going to have the money that an attorney would demand to fight such an uphill battle as a "slander" case. Those are about the most difficult cases to win that any attorney can handle, and they know it. And they certainly would not take it on a contingency basis, because they would know they would be wasting their time. So that would mean a LOT of money up front, as a retainer, that Chris would have to know is pretty much just flushing that money down the hopper as far as he is concerned. And quite frankly, that just sounds like a HIGHLY unlikely step for him to take, to me. Heck, he hasn't been able to come up with the $3,950.00 refund he still owes me for the transmission and differential that he did not install as he said he did. A retainer for an attorney would be at least twice that amount, and only get him about 10 hours worth of work. Then the REAL legal bills start rolling in for him. He better have allocated at least $25,000 for this endeavor.